Stress Management: Mindfulness

Mindfulness is not only a very powerful way to manage your stress, but it will also open the door to the deeper possibilities in your life, the door that chronic stress keeps shut tight.

Typically your mind will distract you and pull you into anxious concerns about the past or future or into some random train of worrisome thought. Stress often follows as a result.

Mindfulness involves bringing your attention into the present moment, so you can be aware and notice what’s going on here and now. By learning to be in the present moment more of the time, you’ll not only reduce your stress but you will also connect to deeper levels of who you are.

When you’re mindful of what you are thinking you can stand free of your thoughts, instead of becoming possessed and defined by them. If you train to be mindful, you’ll pull the plug on stress and its consequences, including anxiety, depression, panic, self-doubt, and serious a variety of serious health problems.

It’s your thoughts that drive your stress. Your mind is always thinking automatically and discursively. It wanders without any clear purpose from one subject to another, often times darting back and forth toward concerns that leave you worried and anxious.  If you learn how to be mindful you’ll learn how to control your thinking and your emotional reactions to what you’re thinking.

Most of the time, you don’t intentionally think your thoughts-they just happen.  And most of the time, you just follow them. And if you are not attentive or mindful to where your mind is and to where it’s taking you-you’ll wind up in a negative flow of thought that leaves you starring in one or another stressful movie.

Mindfulness is Paying Attention and Noticing

Imagine a person in a train station, a person who can’t resist getting on every train that pulls into the station. Day in and day out she gets on trains all day long, trains that take her to places she didn’t plan on going to, places that she then has to make her way back from.

If she was mindful, she could pay attention and not get on the wrong trains. Or she could notice that she was on a train heading off to a place she didn’t want to go, and then get off as soon as possible. Mindfulness is paying attention and noticing.

Stay Off That Train

Every day, endless “trains of thought” pull into your mind. And like the person in our illustration, you get on them and ride them to wherever they take you.  And they usually take you for rides and to destinations that are stressful.

Did you know that left on its own, your mind will worry and dwell on the negative? That’s just the way it is. And the more emotional baggage you’re carrying and the more tough times you’re facing-the more negative your thought flow will be and the more stress will drop in your lap as a result.

You Do Not Have a Mind and a Body

Mindbody Science made a breathtaking discovery, a discovery that is still not commonly known or understood by most people, including medical physicians. The discovery is this: Your mind and body are not two separate things, they are an interdependent unit-your “mindbody”.

This discovery renders obsolete the view that our health is a “Body-Only” affair, a view still held by most health care providers. What you think and feel manifests in every cell in your body. And what’s going on in your body affects what you think and feel. That’s the mindbody connection.

The mindbody connection accounts for why stress is the #1 health and quality of life problem in the entire developed world. Here’s the problem: Stress is not just about feeling tired and frazzled and burnt out. It’s about toxic stress hormones that get released into your body in error.

Your body is hard wired for a survival response known as the Fight or Flight Response. When it’s triggered it releases hormones that prepare you to fight or flee life threatening danger. The problem is that your mind triggers this response in error. A part of your brain can’t tell the difference between your fears and worries and actual life threatening danger.

As stress hormones seep into your blood and tissues and linger there over long periods, you become at risk for anxiety, panic, depression and heart disease, cancer and diabetes, among other health problems.

You Can Train for Mindfulness to Manage Stress

Recall that your mind is always moving, you’re always thinking. The problem is that you get distracted by and identified with what you’re thinking and your thoughts and feelings get out of control and begin to define your reality. That triggers your Fight or Flight Response, which unfortunately triggers more worry and so a vicious cycle of stress and stress hormones.

When you develop mindfulness, you’ll notice that you’re following your thoughts and stop, thereby shortcutting the Fight or Flight Response before it releases stress hormones into your system.

Sitting cross-legged in meditation is not the only way or the most effective way to develop mindfulness. MESICS Training is a great way for westerners to develop strong and stable mindfulness. M-E-S-I-C-S is an acronym for the Latin phrase “Mens Sana In Corpore Sano” It means: A Sound Mind in a Healthy Body”.

MESICS Training^TM translates western medical science discoveries and eastern meditative and healing wisdom into actionable knowledge and combines that knowledge with powerful tools and expert support-so people can cultivate mindfulness, gain control of their lives and live long and well.

Menopause Relief: Stress, Hot Flashes, Anxiety, Depression, Etc.

Most women don’t understand menopause or the real cause of their menopause problems. Too often, women think of menopause as a medical condition that carries with it stress, hot flashes, anxiety, depression and other difficulties. That’s not the case.

Menopause doesn’t naturally cause these problems at all. Hormone imbalance does. And hormone imbalance doesn’t come along with menopause automatically. Women were terribly misinformed about this when told by their doctors that they needed Hormone Replacement Therapy, a fictional cure for a fictional medical condition that studies revealed caused heart disease, stroke and cancer.

Women undergoing menopause who are not in hormone imbalance are free from the problems that plague women who are.

Depleted adrenal glands drive most hormone imbalance for menopausal women. But before we consider this, let’s get the menopause story straight.

If you’re a women near or in menopause-you should know this.

Perimenopause and Menopause

Perimenopause is the transitional time preceding “official” menopause. It begins around 7 years before your last period. You’re “officially” in menopause when you haven’t menstruated for one full year.

Menopause is not a single event or something that occurs suddenly. As noted, it’s a process that begins before your last period, a process that can continue for years after it. Perimenopause and menopause involve complex mindbody changes, changes driven by hormones.

Hormonal changes in menopause take place in your liver, fat cells, adrenals, pancreas, thyroid, hypothalamus and your ovaries. The physical events of menopause are initiated by your Involuntary Nervous System, by your hypothalamus and your pituitary gland, the master gland for your endocrine system.

Three things happen to your body during perimenopause

1. Your body’s production of the hormones estrogen and progesterone declines

2. You stop producing eggs

3. Your menstrual activity decreases and then stops

These perimenopause changes do indeed trigger hormonal imbalance. But this period of hormone imbalance is designed to be short-lived. And it’s actually a signal to your body to balance your hormone system through other means.

With other words, women are not hard wired to have chronic hot flashes and other menopause problems.

The Key Issue: Your Adrenal System

While other things can contribute to hormone imbalance, adrenal exhaustion is the primary cause. Consider this: When perimenopause changes throw Far Eastern women into hormone imbalance, their adrenal glands respond to restore hormone balance.  Their adrenals function like a back-up system that kicks in when perimenopause changes trigger their temporary hormone imbalance.

But, because of exhaustion, the adrenals of Western women cannot perform properly to restore their hormone balance. And so they stay stuck in a chronic state of hormone imbalance and suffer the consequences.

This not only causes hot flashes and other difficulties, but it also it sets the stage risky health problems, including heart disease. Heart disease is the #1 killer of women.

Your Adrenal Glands

Your adrenals are round 3 inch or so glands that sit atop your kidneys. They produce a large number of hormones that have a critical impact on menopause, including aldosterone, DHEA, estrogen, progesterone and pregnenelone.

Your adrenal function can become depleted and create adrenal insufficiency, burnout or exhaustions, serious problems not easily relieved. Most physicians fail to recognize adrenal depletion in women undergoing menopause despite that fact that research demonstrates that 99% of menopausal women have impaired adrenal function.

And so the real problem for 99% of Western women is that their adrenal glands fail to produce enough estrogens, progesterone and other necessary hormones in the right balance and quantities to avoid the problems that occur when their ovaries stop producing these hormones.

Stress Depletes Your Adrenals

A woman’s adrenal glands become exhausted from years of wear and tear caused by the chronic release of stress hormones. When you are chronically stressed, your adrenals are working overtime and they never get a proper rest. And so they become exhausted and lose their ability to function.

Keep these  summary points in mind as a guide:

• Your perimenopause and menopause problems are driven by hormone imbalance

• It’s very likely that your adrenal system, designed to restore hormone balance, fails to do its job properly-because it’s exhausted.

• As a result, your hormone system is chronically imbalanced

• Hormone balance is the normal condition for women

• Your hot flashes and other problems are driven by an extreme condition- hormone imbalance

• You don’t need drugs, including hormones. You need to learn how to restore your adrenals and rebalance your hormonal system, so you can return to hormone balance.

Get Busy Restoring Your Adrenal Glands.

Eat healthy, exercise and get quality sleep and rest. And learn how to turn your stress hormone faucet off and flush stress hormones out of your system.

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You’ll feel a lot better when you do.

Menopause: Why Western Women Have So Much Trouble

Unlike Far Eastern women, Western women are plagued with menopause problem such as hot flashes, mood swings, weight gain, insomnia and depression.

One reason this is the case is the false views western women download about what midlife and menopause are really all about. But that’s changing, thankfully. These false views have led to a counterproductive “mindset”, an outlook that has burdened western women with misinformation and false assumptions.

Menopause has long been shrouded in mystery and misunderstanding. But it’s now understood as a natural part of aging. It’s the gateway to the second half of a woman’s life, a time when a woman can actually be free from worry about pregnancy and free from menstrual periods.

Most importantly, midlife is a time inner change, not just bodily change. It’s actually a time of change involving deepening and discovery. But Western culture fails to offer women a clear, accurate mindset that could serve as a map for understanding and negotiating these inner changes, changes that come naturally at midlife.

Far Eastern women expect and believe that the second half of their lives will be rich and rewarding and their culture supports those expectations and beliefs. Not so in the West.

Midlife involves powerful inner change. It’s not just about your body. But in the West “inner change” is barely recognized and understood. And the focus and often times the obsession is on looking young.

Our culture’s biases and misconceptions about women, and about aging, leave most women with the wrong outlook, one that that views aging as decline, a view that makes growing older a burden.

The idea that life is all downhill after midlife and menopause is like a cultural virus that infects many women’s minds. It’s a bogus and harmful idea. In truth, midlife opens up new possibilities for powerful growth within a woman’s personality, possibilities informed by her soul, by her deeper inner life.  Midlife awakens the soul to make a grab for the steering wheel.

If you don’t buy into the false negative views about menopause and midlife, and if you can recognize and honor your soul, then the second half of your life can be a powerful adventure. It can be an adventure filled with discovery, meaning and satisfaction.

But only if you recognize midlife and menopause for what they truly are. Instead of making the mistake of viewing menopause as a medical problem and midlife as an indication that you’re already half dead.

“Body-Only” assumptions about menopause are like flat earth theory-in error and obsolete. Unfortunately, the medical and drug industries remain committed to the idea that a woman’s menopause is a body-only medical condition. This view grants them power, control and profit.

Well if menopause isn’t a medical condition, then why do so many women think it is? Why is this wrong view so widespread in the media and in the medical community? There’s a few important reasons why, reasons you should know about. Let’s consider some of them.

One is that hormone imbalance in menopause can trigger problems that can be easily be placed in the wrong context to look like symptoms of a medical condition. For example, problems such as hot flashes, insomnia, weight gain, loss of sexual desire, vaginal dryness, moodiness, stress, depression-among others. But these are not typically indications of a medical condition.

They’re problems that get triggered by a natural stage of woman’s life. Hormone changes are a natural part of a woman’s aging. But for most Western women-these hormone changes create long-term hormone imbalance, whereas they don’t for Far Eastern women.

And stress and a chronic flow of stress hormones are the main reasons why Western women fail to regain their hormone balance. Not only does this lead to great discomfort, but it also puts Western women at risk for heart disease. Heart disease is the #1 killer of women in the West.

Did you know that while menopause is a natural part of aging and an important life stage, long-term hormone imbalance is NOT. Nor are the hot flashes, insomnia, weight gain and other menopause problems that travel with continuing hormone imbalance.

Long-term hormone imbalance is the culprit that drives menopause problems. Women can empower themselves considerably if they learn how to regain hormone balance and how to revision their obsolete ideas about midlife, menopause and about what the second half of life is really all about.

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